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I am a Parent to An Older Child with Special Needs and a Friend to AbilityPath Parents. ]]></description>
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      <title>The Face of Hope</title>
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      <description><![CDATA[Today, we all experienced &ldquo;that moment;&rdquo; the instant where you take a visual snapshot of time and deposit it into your bank of memories and experiences.&nbsp; And the best part--it was youth driven and it instantly reminded us why we all transcended to Washington DC&mdash;to build safe communities and school climates where all kids can thrive.&nbsp; The person who inspired a room full of PhDs, nonprofit leaders, federal employees and educators was Hope, a high school student selected to participate in the Federal Bullying Summit.&nbsp;<br />
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The panel on building a kinder and braver world for our youth had just concluded and it was Q&amp;A time. The moderator noted this was a two part question. The question, posed to Cynthia Germanotta, aka Mama Gaga as she was affectionately referred to, asked for recommendations she has for raising more children as loving and accepting as her daughter, Lady Gaga&hellip;before Ms. Germanotta could respond, the moderator asked the second question, &ldquo;Can I have a hug?&rdquo;&nbsp; Ms. Germanotta stood up and asked the young woman who sent the question to join her on stage if she felt comfortable enough.&nbsp;&nbsp; A high school girl with long hair approached the stage and Ms. Germanotta turned to the crowd and said, &ldquo;we&rsquo;re answering the second part of the question first,&rdquo; then proceeded to hug the young woman.&nbsp; She then gave the girl her seat on stage, which is when we learned the young woman&rsquo;s name was Hope.&nbsp; There was a collective sigh in the room&mdash;she was &ldquo;Hope&rdquo; on so many levels for each of us attending.&nbsp; Hope was the future, she was brave to ask the question, she was dedicating herself to building a kinder generation at her school and in that one moment, the good of bullying prevention shined through.&nbsp;<br />
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We had spent a day and half discussing the bullies, their likely profiles, the victims, their struggles, the complexity of universal approaches applied to special populations and the unfortunate incidents of extreme aggression, violence and suicide.&nbsp; So, to have this heartwarming moment, left each of us clinging onto &ldquo;hope.&rdquo;<br />
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As we pack up, our commitment to the issue of bullying and youth with special needs doesn&rsquo;t waver.&nbsp; We&rsquo;re inspired that &ldquo;disabilities and special needs&rdquo; were included and received airtime and began to be considered when discussing interventions.&nbsp;Three years ago, no one was talking disabilities.&nbsp; After the release of our <i><a href="http://www.abilitypath.org/areas-of-development/learning--schools/bullying/articles/walk-a-mile-in-their-shoes.pdf">Walk a Mile in Their Shoes&nbsp;</a></i> report we were invited to participate in the second summit and this year youth with disabilities not only made it on the agenda, researchers and federal agencies were including our kids in their discussions.&nbsp;<br />
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Our pursuit is far from over, but we are proud of the strides taken in the past year.&nbsp; The road ahead is long and perhaps even windy but at least it seems we are on the same road as everyone else.&nbsp; However, what will accelerate change and protection for our kids with special needs is your participation.&nbsp; We are stronger when we are united&mdash;are you in?<br />
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      <pubDate>Tue, 07 Aug 2012 18:19:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Dignity of a child is not an option! </title>
      <link>http://community.abilitypath.org/Carolyn/blog2/2012/08/06/dignity-of-a-child-is-not-an-option-</link>
      <description><![CDATA[AbilityPath is attending the third annual Federal Partners Bullying Prevention Summit in Washington DC this week.&nbsp; Since the release of <i>Walk a Mile in Their Shoes</i>, our report on bullying and children with special needs, we have been advocating to bring the concerns of our population to the national dialog.&nbsp; While our path ahead continues, we were pleased to see children with special needs and disabilities were given time on the agenda for the first time in 3 years!&nbsp;<br />
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As with our children, we celebrate the little things--in this case it&nbsp;was agenda time!&nbsp; Our stories, our struggles and our concerns over our kids with&nbsp;disabilities need to continue being&nbsp;shared.&nbsp;We see this shift as an opportunity to advocate and educate.&nbsp;<br />
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Sheryl Young, shares some philosophical approaches shared from the convention in her blog post.&nbsp; For this blog entry, I&#39;d like to leave you with a couple of tidbits and notables from the first day of the summit, which include:<br />
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		Child advocate Marlo Thomas joined as a speaker and told a touching story about a sister of a child with special needs who&nbsp;had enough of seeing kids being bullied or left out of activities at school.&nbsp; So she started the Smile and Hug Program&nbsp;at her school.&nbsp; She activated a group of girls who, when they saw someone sitting alone or without anyone near them, they would go up to them and smile, offer a hug and sit with them so they were no longer&nbsp;alone.&nbsp; We are trying to connect with the founder of Smile and Hug--whom we only know as Joana.&nbsp;&nbsp;</li>
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		We heard from a young man who was bullied and then turned into a bully himself...fortunately he saw how horrible his actions were and is now an advocate helping other youth transform from bully to friend.&nbsp; He said he became a bully because, &quot;he didn&#39;t want to be vulnerable anymore.&quot;</li>
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And our favorite of the day came from GLSEN&#39;s Director of Education Robert McGarry who said:<br />
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		<span style="font-size: 14px;"><b>&quot;1 can change a life.&nbsp;6 or more can change a culture.&quot;</b></span></li>
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We fundamentally believe that we need to activate our groups of 6 and more in order to change the school and community climates for our children.&nbsp;<br />
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	If you had to identify 6 like-minded people to&nbsp;join your&nbsp;6 Degrees of Acceptance &amp; Change--who would they be? You might have&nbsp;6 immediately or you might start your list and build upon it in the weeks/months to come.&nbsp; The point is begin to form your 6 Degrees so&nbsp;together we can change a culture.&nbsp;<br />
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	You can watch the bully&nbsp;prevention summit, live by&nbsp;visiting <a href="http://www.stopbullying.org/live">www.stopbullying.org/live</a>.&nbsp;<br />
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	We&#39;re interviewing a youth attendee tomorrow who is a mentor to a young man with autism...stay tuned for more updates from your AbilityPath crew on the ground in DC!&nbsp;<br />
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      <pubDate>Mon, 06 Aug 2012 21:36:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Poem in your pocket day!</title>
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      <description><![CDATA[Just when&nbsp; you thought there was a recognition month for everything--we just learned April 26, 2012 is &quot;Poem in Your Pocket Day&quot;--yes you read right, a day dedicated to carring a &quot;Poem in Your Pocket!&quot; The day has been celebrated since 2002 in commemoration of National Poetry Month (April) and the thought around the day is to carry your favorite poem in your pocket and share it with co-workers, family, friends--basically anyone who will listen.&nbsp; So, we at AbilityPath&nbsp; thought, we can have fun with this--and so we are using this blog as our &quot;virtual pocket&quot; and are joining the Poem in Your Pocket Day movement to share the love of our special needs community and poetry!&nbsp;<br />
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Here it is--a poem we found--<b>A Friend Like Me</b>.&nbsp; It was originally posted on the <a href="http://mommylife.net/archives/2008/09/wasilla_reader.html">Mommy Life</a> blog in 2008 by Tracey Porreca.&nbsp; The <a href="http://www.our-kids.org/Archives/Holland.html">Welcome to Holland</a> poem by Emily Perl Kingsley might have been an obvious choice--and we like it--we picked Tracey&#39;s poem because it seemed to capture both the desires our children have to make friends and our hopes as parents that our children be treated with dignity and respect.&nbsp; If you like it or the Holland poem, please share this posting with others in your networks; Tweet it or speak it--whatever tickles your fancy. And if you have a poem that is not listed here or have written one yourself, please share it with us in <a href="http://community.abilitypath.org/discussions/discussions/2012/04/25/special-needs-poems?tr=187443#tr__187443">our forum discussion</a>--we just created a new topic for poems!<br />
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Enjoy our poem pick:<br />
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<b>A FRIEND LIKE ME</b><br />
by Tracey Porreca<br />
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Please don&#39;t be afraid of me<br />
I want to be your friend.<br />
And if you get to know me<br />
Your rigid thoughts might bend<br />
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Thoughts that I am different<br />
From others that you know,<br />
I really am no different<br />
And this I&#39;d like to show<br />
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I live and breathe and laugh and cry<br />
I love to play and learn,<br />
I sometimes do things differently<br />
Which can cause some concern<br />
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You see, some say I&#39;m special<br />
I guess this much is true,<br />
But if you were to ask me<br />
I&#39;d say you&#39;re special too<br />
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We&#39;re all a little different<br />
No two are just the same,<br />
It&#39;s really something wonderful<br />
that way there is no blame<br />
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When things don&#39;t go just perfectly<br />
And others get confused,<br />
And say things like &quot;poor child&quot;<br />
and other terms they use<br />
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It&#39;s okay if you look at me<br />
And might not understand,<br />
It&#39;s okay if you touch me<br />
And even hold my hand<br />
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My life has many obstacles<br />
Much more than you could know,<br />
But that&#39;s not what I dwell on<br />
I&#39;m me, that&#39;s all, and so...<br />
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Please don&#39;t be afraid of me<br />
I want you just to see,<br />
How truly great and wonderful<br />
A friend like me can be<br />
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      <pubDate>Wed, 25 Apr 2012 15:58:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Autism Awareness Month </title>
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	Autism Awareness Month is more than just a &quot;month&quot; it is a lifelong journey for many families.&nbsp; That journey has peaks and it has valleys--as every parenting ride has--and we are given 30 days to educate, empower and raise the consciouness of those around us on a very complex issue.&nbsp; While the campaigns and public service announcements around autism are great and very much needed, the real power is the stories themselves.&nbsp; Your stories, your celebrations, your fears and your life--that is what will truly empower and motivate others to better understand you and your child.<br />
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	We loved this post by Love That Max&#39;s column on www.parents.com about a mom raising her son with autism in the digital era <a href="http://www.parents.com/blogs/to-the-max/2012/04/02/uncategorized/parenting-autism-in-the-ipad-and-internet-era/">http://www.parents.com/blogs/to-the-max/2012/04/02/uncategorized/parenting-autism-in-the-ipad-and-internet-era/</a> Whether or not you have a child with autism, you can relate to this mom relishing in her son&#39;s interest in reading AND self-entertaining! &nbsp;<br />
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	We want to share your story too.&nbsp; Tell us your &quot;Autism Story&quot; or share with us what keeps you grounded or what has you sleepless at night.&nbsp; Connect with others and join our discussion <a href="http://community.abilitypath.org/app/render/go.aspx?iDiscussionID=7242&amp;iDiscussionTopicID=33641&amp;xslt=discussions%2Fdiscussionbase.xslt&amp;mode=topic&amp;cons_id&amp;ts=1333376832&amp;signature=f954f8deada9b183fb6dc55883480678">http://community.abilitypath.org/app/render/go.aspx?iDiscussionID=7242&amp;iDiscussionTopicID=33641&amp;xslt=discussions%2Fdiscussionbase.xslt&amp;mode=topic&amp;cons_id&amp;ts=1333376832&amp;signature=f954f8deada9b183fb6dc55883480678</a>&nbsp; Connecting to others can be so powerful and often helps keep us calm when the clouds begin to set in.</p>
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	And if you are told &quot;it will never happen&quot; just remember this nonverbal young man with autism and his story that is coming from the UK; he spoke but a few words and is now about to release his first album.&nbsp; There will be hits and there will be misses along our journey and its stories like this that we cling to and allow us to have &quot;Hope!&quot; &nbsp;<br />
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	Enjoy!<br />
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      <pubDate>Mon, 02 Apr 2012 12:41:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>You're Amazing Just the Way You Are!</title>
      <link>http://community.abilitypath.org/Carolyn/blog2/2012/02/14/youre-amazing-just-the-way-you-are</link>
      <description><![CDATA[Happy Valentine&#39;s Day!&nbsp; At AbilityPath we salute you--mothers, grandmothers, fathers, grandfathers, siblings and our children themselves on this special day.&nbsp; In fact everyone in our &quot;extended family&quot; deserves a little extra fanfare today as we all know it truly does take a villiage to raise our children.&nbsp; But most importantly, don&#39;t forget to celebrate YOU.&nbsp; Show yourself some love and do something (even for 5 minutes) that YOU want to do today.&nbsp; Squeeze it in and then squeeze yourself because you deserve it!&nbsp; Let us know what you do to celebrate YOU today--even if it is FINISHING a cup of coffee--remeber you are a part of a community that celebrates the smallest of things.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br />
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Here&#39;s a touching video we love and thought captured to essence of today.&nbsp; MattyBRaps, thank you for sharing your love with us and the rest of YouTube!!!&nbsp;<br />
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      <pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 09:12:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>The Next Generation </title>
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      <description><![CDATA[Last week, I wrote about my reengergized outlook for Valentine&#39;s Day, because of a YouTube video I found posted by a sibling of two young people with special needs.&nbsp;<br />
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This week, another sibling story has me even more anxious to celebrate Valentine&#39;s Day and the love we are all lucky to receive from our children, brother, sisters, cousins, students, neighbors or friends with disabilities and special needs.&nbsp; Grace and Josh, the two siblings who are taking Facebook by storm with their beautiful photo montage, let their love, laughs and friendship be seen by the world.&nbsp; The <a href="http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10150341805178388.343953.511403387&amp;type=3">18 photos</a> illustrate their bond, their personality and more importantly the respect they have for one another.&nbsp;<br />
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Unfortunately headlines today are riddled with unimaginable acts of bullying.&nbsp; Instead of giving the bullies more airtime, I&#39;d like to see Grace and Josh&#39;s pictures &quot;go viral&quot; and be included on Good Morning America, The Today Show, Anderson Cooper and make headlines in major newspapers across the country.&nbsp; Let&#39;s take back the airwaves and our social networks from bullies and spread Josh and Grace&#39;s touching sibling tribute to any and everyone who will pay attention.&nbsp; Join me and share this message and link to your Facebook wall, tweet it from your Twitter account and share with others you know to celebrate the month of &quot;love&quot;!&nbsp;<br />
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Link to Grace and Josh&#39;s photos!<br />
http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10150341805178388.343953.511403387&amp;type=3<br />
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      <pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 23:45:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>Hope at AbilityPath</dc:creator>
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      <title>Beautiful love </title>
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      <description><![CDATA[As we settle into the New Year and approach February, the month of Valentine&#39;s Day, I am reinvigorated to celebrate the month.&nbsp; I stumbled across a video on YouTube that defines what Valentine&#39;s Day should be all about. It isn&#39;t about how many flowers fill your vase, it isn&#39;t about how many pieces of chocolate you can eat or even that $2 Hallmark card...it&#39;s about LOVE. True, genuine and honest love.&nbsp;<br />
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This video shows the trueness of love from such a beautiful perspective--a sibling. This video touched me deeply, because it shows what many of us already know, children and youth with special needs and disabilities are true, genuine and honest.&nbsp; Ok, perhaps a little too honest at times, but those are characteristics any parent hopes their child embodies and for the most, to coin a Lady Gaga phrase, our kids were &quot;born that way&quot;.&nbsp;<br />
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So I am now, (probably the first time since grade school) in the Valentine&#39;s Day spirit.&nbsp; I will play this video as a reminder that love is right before my eyes and will take time (even if I might be in a valley instead of a peak) to embrace this beautiful love. &nbsp;<br />
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Tell me what you think of this video?&nbsp; Please share it and hope its message gets across loud and clear!<br />
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      <pubDate>Sat, 21 Jan 2012 07:36:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>Hope at AbilityPath</dc:creator>
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      <title>Bullseye Target!!! </title>
      <link>http://community.abilitypath.org/Carolyn/blog2/2012/01/04/bullseye-target-</link>
      <description><![CDATA[Whether you shop Target or prefer another store, one this for certain, the big box retailer got it right this week!&nbsp; In their weekly ad circular, Target included a young boy model with Down syndrome in their kids clothing section.&nbsp; But that&#39;s not why we think what they did was great--even though many more retailers should take note and follow suit--the best thing about the ad was the model with Down syndrome wasn&#39;t part of a particular campaign or charity promotion--he was, like all the other kids in the ad, just modeling the clothes and having fun.&nbsp; In fact, if you were flipping through you might have missed it--ok maybe not those of us in the special needs and disabilities community--but that is what is terrific, the child model is just that, a child model, looking adorable in his jeans and red shirt shoulder to shoulder with his peers.&nbsp;<br />
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<img class="120101_p09mw_DYARA_20120105012804_400.jpg" src="http://community.abilitypath.org/assets/abilitypath/blogs_/38/3138/images/posts/176357/120101_p09mw_DYARA_20120105012804_400.jpg" style="border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; float: left;" />We at AbilityPath have been discussing ways for companies and consumer brands &quot;to get it&quot; and begin including people with disabilities and special needs into their marketing promotions.&nbsp; It isn&#39;t a numbers game--over 20 million families in the U.S. have a member with a disability and it isn&#39;t a matter of loyalty--one thing about the special needs and disabilities community is our loyalty runs deep and when you include us, you are included in our priorities!&nbsp; But like so many other things, it is about education! Abilitypath is committed to continuing to make occurrences, like the Target ad this week, increase in frequency! In the meantime we applaud Target for their respectful inclusion of models of all abilities.<br />
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We&#39;re not surprised by Target&#39;s action as they are a terrific employment partner for our parent organization, Community Gatepath, that has been serving children and adults with disabilities for over 90 years.&nbsp; Target hires Gatepath trainees allowing for competitive employment opportunities for adults with varying abilities. &nbsp;<br />
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It&#39;s important big companies know how their actions are affecting their customers.&nbsp; Let Target know they hit &quot;the bullseye&quot; with you--a loyal customer-- and send and your appreciation to:<br />
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Gregg Steinhafel<br />
Chairman, President and CEO, Target<br />
1000 Nicollet Mall<br />
Minneapolis, MN 55403<br />
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Where do you shop? Are there other companies who you feel relate to you as a parent/family member of a person with a disability or special need?&nbsp; Let us know what you think of the Target ad or other campaigns.&nbsp; ]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2012 23:37:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>Hope at AbilityPath</dc:creator>
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      <title>Celebrate with a Creamsicle -It's a holiday--really!</title>
      <link>http://community.abilitypath.org/Carolyn/blog2/2011/08/14/celebrate-with-a-creamsicle--its-a-holiday--really</link>
      <description><![CDATA[<img class="pop_20110814011055_400.jpeg" src="http://community.abilitypath.org/assets/abilitypath/blogs_/38/3138/images/posts/170971/pop_20110814011055_400.jpeg" style="width: 124px; height: 125px; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; float: left;" />Just when you think you&#39;ve heard of everything...National Creamsicle Day pops up!&nbsp; We couldn&#39;t make this up--today, August 14, people are celebrating the beloved treat that for many might be synonymous with the sound of a ringing bell from an approaching ice cream truck. Although a creamsicle is actually a brand name it is used in general terms for any type of desert that combines vanilla ice cream with a layer of frozen fruity ice surrounding the ice cream. Orange-flavored is the most common although variations do include berry flavors and even chocolate!<br />
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If you don&#39;t have a box in your freezer to indulge in this &quot;national holiday,&quot; you can make your own!&nbsp; Punchbowl.com provides this easy breezy recipe for homemade creamsicles:<br />
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Mix together fruit juice and vanilla ice cream in a large bowl. Then, gradually add milk and continue to mix. Finally, pour the mixture into small paper cups and place them in the freezer. Once they are partially frozen, insert popsicle sticks into them and place them back inside the freezer. When they are frozen solid, peel off the paper cups and enjoy the creamsicle!&nbsp;<br />
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Given the warm weather that has been hovering much of the nation, a Creamsicle Day might be a welcomed way to cool off. Or it is just a fun excuse to sit, relax and enjoy a summer treat!!&nbsp; Let us know if you indulge in this day of celebration!!]]></description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 14 Aug 2011 11:05:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>Hope at AbilityPath</dc:creator>
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      <title>Heavy Hearts re: Maryland Tragedy</title>
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      <description><![CDATA[Profound sadness surrounds the story coming out of Maryland of a mother and well known psychiatrist who shot and killed herself and her 13 year old son with autism.&nbsp; Our instinct is to jump to conclusions, but rather we mourn the child&#39;s life who was taken too soon and the mother who was clearly in need of help.&nbsp;<br />
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News sources are speculating that the mother was devastated about her son returning to the school district where bullying occurred because of his disability and his weight.&nbsp; We understand all too well the anger, frustration and devastation parents face in this position--however we also know that murder-suicide is never the only option.&nbsp; If you don&#39;t agree with an IEP placement you have choices to pursue; read <a href="http://www.abilitypath.org/areas-of-development/learning--schools/schools-and-ieps/articles/iep-services-what-if-you-dont-agree.html">What if you don&rsquo;t agree with the proposed IEP services</a> for more information.&nbsp; However, it is so easy to feel alone, isolated and like your back is in a corner.<br />
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But what should be increasing our blood pressure is the fact that this is yet another horrific result of special needs bullying.&nbsp; Last week AbilityPath was honored to be asked to join Secretary of Education Duncan&#39;s Federal Partners in Bullying Summit.&nbsp; Bullying is an issue we are committed to and will continue to represent our community of children with special needs and their families.&nbsp; Participating in national conversations will hopefully bring SOLUTIONS--so tragedies like this one in Maryland and the countless others happening in communities across the country don&#39;t repeat themselves.&nbsp;<br />
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The second thing this story reminds us about is the importance for moms, dads, grandparents and other caregivers of children with special needs to take care of themselves.&nbsp; Parenting in general is one of the toughest jobs and adding special needs and disabilities into the mix adds to the complexity of the job we love.&nbsp; Wonderful peaks and even some low valleys are expected and it is important to know that our community is here to be a cheerleader, a friendly ear and comforting shoulder!&nbsp;<br />
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Back to school time is a stressful time for all parents, and adding IEP meetings and transition planning to a new class and environemnt into the mix--it is easy to understand feeling overwhelmed.&nbsp; Just remember there is help and you are not the only one going through it.&nbsp; Articles on AbilityPath that provide some support during these times of greater stress are: <a href="http://www.abilitypath.org/love-laugh--live/stress-relationships/coping/articles/stress-management-tips.html">Stress-Management Tips: Developing A Mindful Approach</a>, <a href="http://www.abilitypath.org/love-laugh--live/stress-relationships/coping/articles/five-things-that-contribute-to-stress.html">Five Things that Contribute to Stress and Ways to Manage Them</a> , <a href="http://www.abilitypath.org/love-laugh--live/stress-relationships/coping/articles/understanding-your-stress-patterns.html">Understanding Your Patterns of Stress,</a>&nbsp; <a href="http://www.abilitypath.org/love-laugh--live/stress-relationships/coping/articles/can-therapy-help-my-child-and-me.html">Can Therapy Help my Child and Me?</a> We do encourage you to seek professional guidance if you are experiencing feelings unlike you have felt before.&nbsp;<br />
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Again, we do not rush to judgment on the case in Maryland, instead our hearts are heavy with sadness and our<br />
thoughts go out to the family.&nbsp;<br />
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      <pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 08:07:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Summer Blockbusters: Movies, Disabilities and more</title>
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	This weekend kicks off the summer blockbuster season for movies and Hollywood. But some of the best movies on the silver screen are documentaries created by or about individuals with disabilities. They may not star Johnny Depp and include pyrotechnics, but these movies share remarkable stories as well as entertaining characters.&nbsp;<br />
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	One such example is &quot;<a href="http://www.everyonedeservesashot.com/"><b>Shooting Beauty</b></a>.&quot; The award winning documentary began over six years ago when Courtney Bent adapted cameras for adults with disabilities. Bent loved the idea of these adults using the camera as their voice; to showcase their perspective and their world through images. Eventually, Bent began bringing a video camera to her photo workshops and the idea for a film was born.&nbsp;<br />
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	&quot;The whole point was to have participants speak for themselves,&quot; said &quot;Shooting Beauty&quot; executive producer Courtney Bent. &quot;Here I am trying to tell their story, but I am the one being introduced to their world.&nbsp;The movie allows people to take the journey with me. [It] was my personal evolution as someone with limited exposure, and my own personal stereotypes [on disabilities], going through and getting to know these participants.&quot;<br />
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	In addition to bringing awareness, the film is also extremely entertaining. No different than any other major film production, its story and characters were critical pieces to the film&#39;s success.<br />
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	&quot;it resonated&nbsp;with young kids,&quot; said Bent. &quot;They wanted to engage immediately and have this conversation about disabilities.&quot;<br />
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	Individuals with disabilities are becoming more prevalent in pop culture; primarily through TV and movies. Through characters like <a href="http://www.hbo.com/movies/temple-grandin/index.html">Becky Jackson</a> on &quot;Glee&quot; to Oprah sensation <a href="http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/04/04/a-comedic-tv-talent-turns-the-tables-on-oprah/#">Zach Anner</a>, the inclusion and awareness of this important but sometimes forgotten segment of the population is becoming more &quot;mainstream.&quot; Some may argue, it is reaching a tipping point.&nbsp;<br />
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	&quot;Society has been gearing up and we need to start the conversation,&quot; said Bent. &quot;The push for inclusion in schools has helped. Society hasn&#39;t had enough exposure to people with disabilities. These issues are very important and we need to talk about it more.&quot;<br />
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	So in addition to watching the traditional summer movie action flick or romantic comedy, here are a few other films to add to your Netflix list (check websites for local screenings in your city):</p>
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	<b><a href="http://www.everyonedeservesashot.com/">Shooting Beauty </a></b>- Story of an aspiring fashion photographer whose career takes an unexpected turn<br />
	<a href="http://flyawaymovie.com/"><b>Fly Away</b></a> - The story of a mother and her daughter with autism as the child grows up and eventually seeks her own independence<br />
	<a href="http://www.wretchesandjabberers.org/about.php"><b>Wretches and Jabbers</b></a> - Two men with autism that embark on a global quest to change attitudes on disabilities<br />
	<a href="http://www.mariereganfilm.com/"><b>Cowboy Song</b></a> - Two brothers, one with a seizure disorder and cognitive disability, and their growing relationship<br />
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      <pubDate>Fri, 20 May 2011 14:09:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>New South Korea Autism Study - A Few Things to Consider</title>
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	Various news media including the <a href="http://nyti.ms/m3hBoE">New York Times</a> and <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2011/HEALTH/05/09/autism.study/index.html">CNN</a> reported&nbsp; today on a new study conducted in South Korea by Yale Child Study Center, George Washington University and other leading institutions. The report findings, which are being published in <a href="http://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/cgi/reprint/appi.ajp.2011.10101532v1?maxtoshow=&amp;hits=10&amp;RESULTFORMAT=&amp;fulltext=autism+south+korea&amp;searchid=1&amp;FIRSTINDEX=0&amp;sortspec=relevance&amp;resourcetype=HWCIT">The American Journal of Psychiatry</a>, indicate that children ages 7 to 12 were diagnosed with <b><a href="http://www.abilitypath.org/areas-of-development/delays--special-needs/autism/">autism</a></b> at twice the rate usually reported in the U.S. and other developed nations.<br />
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	While the report is startling and supports the notion that <i>rates of autism continue to climb</i>, <b><a href="http://www.abilitypath.org/meet-our-experts/heidi-m-feldman-md-phd.html">Dr. Heidi Feldman</a></b>, Ballinger-Swindells Professor of Developmental and Behavioral Pediatrics at Stanford University School of Medicine and <a href="http://www.abilitypath.org">AbilityPath.org</a> expert, cautions the public and parents at large that more research is needed before blanket claims can be made about incident levels.<br />
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	&ldquo;Though a lot of publicity has surrounded the publication of this article, it has some substantial weaknesses to consider,&rdquo;&nbsp; said Dr. Feldman in an exclusive interview with AbilityPath.org.&nbsp; She points out that researchers were able to obtain screening information on only 63% of children in the general population and responses could have come from parents already concerned about their child&rsquo;s development; such bias could increase the prevalence in the study.<br />
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	Dr. Feldman further directs attention to the fact that at each step of the processing, only a fraction of the children identified as &quot;at risk&quot; were fully evaluated. This reduction in the sample further raises the possibility of error. While the study brings to light the ongoing need for awareness and increased attention to early identification, Dr. Feldman also shares some concern about cultural sensitivities with the report.<br />
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	&ldquo;The materials used to diagnose autism were developed in the West, then translated and back translated to attempt a good match,&quot; notes Dr. Feldman. &quot;However, if cultural factors encourage certain behaviors in children then the rates of autism might be artificially elevated in countries such as Korea.&quot;<br />
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	<b>AbilityPath.org </b>applauds the efforts of the researchers and the study&rsquo;s funders but encourages families not to rush to judgment on the preliminary data. This is the first effort to estimate prevalence of autism in South Korea. When asked what the takeaway of this study would be for her patients and AbilityPath.org families, Dr. Feldman responds, &ldquo;We don&#39;t know if rates are rising or if this method is more inclusive than other approaches in this country. Let&#39;s wait for U.S. replication data to decide if rates of autism are rising.&rdquo;<br />
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	As always we encourage any parent or caregiver to consult with their pediatrician if they have concerns about their child&rsquo;s development. For more information and videos about autism make sure to visit the AbilityPath.org <a href="http://www.abilitypath.org/areas-of-development/delays--special-needs/autism/ ">autism</a> section or join our <a href="http://community.abilitypath.org/Groups/Autism">autism group</a>.<br />
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	You can also view a recent video interview with Dr. Feldman and a mother discussing the early signs of autism at <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/AbilityPathChannel#p/u/6/3GmraidRfLc">www.youtube.com/user/AbilityPathChannel</a> or <b>join Dr. Feldman in a <a href="https://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=201327609903924">Livestream Community Chat </a>on Facebook on Tuesday May 10 at 9 p.m. EST/6 p.m. PST. </b><br />
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      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 18:48:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Music Monday: How did you celebrate? </title>
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	The first Monday of May is <a href="http://musicmakesus.ca/musicmonday/">Music Monday</a>, an annual event that brings together thousands of students, musicians, parents and community members across the country to celebrate the gift of music in their lives, on the same day at the same time. Over 650,000 students in 65 school districts in the United States and 1,679 in Canada will open their mouths in celebration today.</p>
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	Across the country, many children with special needs will take part in this annual event. In particular, a nationwide drumming program will take place today , where teachers lead students who drum on their desks and repeat.&nbsp; AbilityPath.org asks for parents and teachers to share videos of their children celebrating today&#39;s celebration.&nbsp;</p>
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	Upload your video on how your child participated in Music Monday to <a href="http://www.youtube.com/abilitypathchannel">www.youtube.com</a> including the tags &quot;musicmonday&quot; and &quot;abilitypath&quot; or share your video link on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/abilitypath">Facebook</a>. You can also share your video in your AbilityPath.org <a href="http://community.abilitypath.org/parent-blogs">parent blog</a>. Here is a great example of one parent celebrating their child through music and video.<br />
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      <pubDate>Mon, 02 May 2011 08:44:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Autism Checklist Nothing New</title>
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	There is a lot of buzz regarding an <b><a href="http://firstwords.fsu.edu/pdf/checklist.pdf">&quot;autism checklist&quot;</a></b> in the news this week. The story started circulating through news sources including the <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/national/checklist-could-spot-children-with-autism-earlier/2011/04/25/AFvKWK2E_story.html">Washington Post </a>and <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2011/HEALTH/04/28/austism.predict.questionnaire/index.html?hpt=C2">CNN</a> after a federally funded study of 10,000 infants found use of the questionnaire led to the diagnosis of autism in about half of the children.<br />
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	&ldquo;This study is enormously important from the practical standpoint of helping families out,&rdquo; said Karen Pierce of the University of California at San Diego, who led the research. &ldquo;And from a scientific standpoint, it is undeniably important because for the first time you can study autism before the full-blown symptoms come on line.&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>
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	What many new parents may not know, is this five-minute checklist is something that has been used for years by pediatricians and caregivers. The checklist is a <a href="http://firstwords.fsu.edu/toddlerChecklist.html"><b>CSBS DP</b></a> (Communication and Symbolic Behavior Scales Developmental Profile) Infant-Toddler Checklist. It was created in 2001 by &nbsp;Wetherby and Prizant&nbsp;and includes questions such as &quot;Do you know when your child is happy?&quot; or &quot;Does your child put two words together?&quot; It wouldn&#39;t be surprising for a parent of a child with autism to find select warning signs when reviewing the questionnaire. In general, the checklist is a great resource for identifying concerns regarding a child&#39;s development.&nbsp;</p>
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	The checklist may be used for children as young as 12 months and is a critical tool to identify developmental delays including <a href="http://www.abilitypath.org/areas-of-development/communication--speech/">speech and communication</a>&nbsp;delays and/or&nbsp;<a href="http://www.abilitypath.org/areas-of-development/social--emotional/">social and emotional development</a>.</p>
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	<a href="http://www.abilitypath.org">AbilityPath.org</a> offers a variety of <a href="http://www.abilitypath.org/areas-of-development/milestone-concerns/">milestone</a> tools and information on <a href="http://www.abilitypath.org/areas-of-development/">delays and special needs</a> which are also useful tools for parents and caregivers. Parents can also learn more about <a href="http://www.abilitypath.org/areas-of-development/delays--special-needs/autism/">autism</a> and <a href="http://community.abilitypath.org/Groups/Autism">connect with parents</a> of children with autism on the site.&nbsp;<br />
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      <pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2011 16:02:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Pesticides and Cognitive Development: What should moms do?</title>
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	Expecting moms have always been given a long list of recommendations in order to ensure their and their baby&#39;s health. <i>Take&nbsp;prenatal vitamins. Don&#39;t smoke or drink. Exercise. Visit your doctor. Eat healthy foods. </i>Unfortunately, the last recommendation could be harming more than helping their child&#39;s future cognitive development.&nbsp;<br />
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	<a href="http://ehp03.niehs.nih.gov/home.action">Environmental Health Perspectives</a>, a peer-to-peer journal published by the National Institute of Environmental Health Sciences, released <a href="http://ehp03.niehs.nih.gov/article/fetchArticle.action?articleURI=info%3Adoi%2F10.1289%2Fehp.1003183">three separate studie</a>s this week that tracked the long-term cognitive development&nbsp;of children who were exposed to pesticides during their mother&#39;s pregnancy. &nbsp;The studies were unique in that they followed the development of children up to 9 years of age. The subjects included in the studies also cover a wide range of demographics, cities, socio-economic backgrounds and education.&nbsp;<br />
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	<a href="http://healthland.time.com/2011/04/21/exposure-to-pesticides-in-pregnancy-can-lower-childrens-iq/">Time</a> featured a great summary of all three studies. &nbsp;It concluded that mom&#39;s exposure to pesticides, both inside and outside the house, may lower their child&#39;s IQ by 7 points or more. But avoiding pesticides may be harder than one realizes. For families that work in the agricultural industry, exposure may be part of their livelihood and neighborhood. With the rise in organic foods, more parents (including expecting moms) worry about exposure to pesticides in their fruits and vegetables. Many expecting moms try to eat healthier foods including greens, fibers and fresh fruits in their diet, but buying organic is also expensive. With the cost of food escalating, eating these healthy items are getting more difficult by the day.&nbsp;</p>
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	As more research is done on the <a href="http://www.abilitypath.org/areas-of-development/delays--special-needs/autism/articles/autism-causes-in-children.html">cause of delays and special needs</a> including autism, environment continues to be a factor that rises to the top. This may include the pollution in our air, chemicals on our foods or <a href="http://m.apnews.com/ap/db_16026/contentdetail.htm?contentguid=ijhFOYBE">antibiotics</a> in our meats. For some parents and scientists, it is a common sense answer to the sudden and rapid rise of diagnosis of spectrum disorders.&nbsp;<br />
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	As an expecting mom or parent, how can you stay healthy? Is it worth worrying if these environmental factors in our communities and foods are affecting your family&#39;s health? Or is your child&#39;s development not something you can control?&nbsp;</p>
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